Lately, I have been asking and contemplating over this question an umpteen number of times. Why am askin this question-well, simply 'cos I'm sick and tired of men doing whatever they want and walking away scot free.
I personally know of men who have been cheating on their wives or partners. The women are torn apart, hurt beyond repair and confused as to what to do with the relationship. But the men,on the other hand, don't give a damn and are living life exactly like how they want. Their consciences are hardened and they don't have any remorse towards their acts of infidelity. Instead they have the audacity to actually blame the woman for not satisfying their 'needs'. What do you expect the woman to be?? Show me a man who can sacrifice for his partner as much as his girl/woman can. There would not be such a man simply 'cos all men are born selfish and egoistic by nature.
I fully agree with Scriptures which instructs wives to be submissive to their husbands. But I wish guys would read the verses prior to the one about 'submission' in Ephesians and realise they have an equally important task at keeping a relationship strong.
When men cheat and walk away with no remorse, I always wonder, "GOD, HELLLOOO?? Didn't You just see that??Did You see him do that ??Are you gonna do something about it?God, why aren't You pricking his conscience?Why can't You make him realise he's hurting the poor woman who's loving him blindly and completely oblivious to his activities?Why God,why are You not doing something about it?Will You speak to his heart and convict him of his errors?"
My question still remains unanswered- Is God partial to men??
7 comments:
God and Partial, No way... but the way he deals situations and teaching techniques are different...Havent you read about how HE taught Jonah the prophet his lesson..
true..ive read abt Jonah...but still..i wish God wud teach cheatin men the way He taught David!!
and you praise Him for being good to a Samaritan women... I used to wish the same with women, not now...
oye.. i haven't been here in a while. your page is so colorful now. i think i liked the old plain one better.
Firstly there is THE GOOD, THE BAD and THE UGLY in every gender...
What determines a person to be moral or immoral depends on a particular person's character... God can help a person only if he/she asks for 'Him' while taking a decision...God is never partial..
There are people out there who are waiting for an 'opportunity' and because of the lack of 'opportunity' they act like Good...
There are people I know who belong to the fairer gender who do such cruel things...So can we say God is partial to them?... No we can't!!!... If you analyse and watch such a person's life, they are not actually happy with their lives... Or I should say they are not seeing the bigger picture by following their physical urges..
I think one of the most greatest thing one can get in their lives is a loving partner who is loyal to them... and someone they lpve too.. If anyone takes that for granted, surely they will pay for it sooner or later...
@ a beautiful mind:
i totally agree wit u, dude..the feeling's amazin wen ur able to love some1 knowin dat they too love u back...i once read a qoute "love is all about giving the person a chance to destroy you and trusting him/her not to"
I gues the answer to the whole "Male thingy" would be True love, Genunine Commitment and Endless trust.I bet all these three things are the basics to be follower of christ.well it might seem a man can get away with anything every action has its reaction and more over there is the Judgement Day where everyone has to answer...i don't think God is partial..i think he's "patient".
Keep well!!
Cheers,
Dan Andrew
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